You've probably heard of squirting - and you may even know someone who claims to do it during sex. But what is squirting, exactly? And how can you make it happen for your partner? While the practice is not as taboo as it once was, there is still a lot of mystery surrounding squirting. In this post, we'll break down everything you need to know about squirting and how to make it happen for your partner.
What is Squirting?
For many, squirting is shrouded in mystery. Is it pee? How do you do it? Is it even pleasurable? Here's the lowdown on everything you need to know about squirting, including the benefits of this elusive act. First and foremost, squirting is not pee. It's a separate bodily fluid that comes from the Skene's glands, located on the upper wall of the vagina. For some women, this is an incredibly pleasurable experience that can lead to intense orgasm. Squirting during sex can also help to lubricate the vagina and increase the chance of orgasm.
The anatomy of squirting
In order to make your partner squirt, you first need to understand the anatomy of the female ejaculatory system. The key players are the Skene's glands, which are located on the anterior wall of the vagina, just behind the pubic bone.
When stimulated, these glands produce fluid that exits through the urethra. So, in order to make your partner squirt, you need to stimulate her G-spot (which is located just in front of the Skene's glands) with either your fingers or a sex toy.
If you want to give your partner a squirting orgasm, here are 7 simple steps to follow.
1. Put Her in a Good Mood
It is not sufficient to use the physical approaches mentioned below. You must also prepare her emotionally and intellectually for the meeting. During a sexual encounter, women place a larger priority on emotional connection and intimacy. That isn't to say they don't value the physical components; it's just that they find it difficult to enjoy them without the emotional connection. This is why, if you want her to squirt, you must first get her in the appropriate frame of mind. What does this appear to be? Building trust with your spouse is the most crucial thing you can do before attempting a squirting orgasm. In order to share such a personal side of herself with you, your spouse must have faith in you.
You'll also want to create a soothing atmosphere. This entails removing all external distractions (such as cell phones and televisions) and creating her own little paradise within your home. To boost the closeness and comfort of the occasion, add a couple of her own favorites — a spritz of her favorite perfume, her favorite music playing softly on the radio.
The most vital suggestion, though, is to pay attention to her body language.
It will be difficult to induce her to squirt if you don't already have a good understanding of her body language. It is, nonetheless, a crucial aspect of generating a relaxed atmosphere.
You can alter the surroundings to match her demands at the time if you can interpret her body language. You can meet her exactly where she needs you, which will go a long way toward establishing trust and a strong emotional bond.
2. Boost Her Arousal
While this isn't true for all women, many women do require a little more to start their engines going. With that in mind, there are some things you may do before your session to increase her arousal.
Throughout the day, send her obscene texts.
In public, whisper what you'd like to do to her.
Together, read erotic novels.
Together, watch pornography (and let her pick her favorite)
Massage her erotically.
And this point leads right into the next...
3. Don't be stingy with your foreplay.
She's all set to go now that she's been stimulated. Right? That is not the case. Even if you used the arousal strategies listed above, some foreplay before sex is still a good idea.
Foreplay is essential for both physical and mental reasons. It will assist your partner in reducing the number of roles she plays in her daily life to just one: your lover.
4. Get to The Right Spots
It's true that clitoral stimulation can induce a squirting orgasm in your spouse. However, for the majority of women, one area in particular will suffice: the g-spot.
But how does squirting occur when the g-spot is stimulated?
The Skene's gland, which is located right adjacent to the g-spot, is a more recently found structure.
You can indirectly stimulate the Skene's gland by activating the g-spot. If you want her to squirt, this is a positive sign.
Do you want to improve your chances of hitting the sweet spot and bringing her to a happy place? Then, at the same time, stimulate the clitoris and the g-spot. You can do it with vaginal penetration, fingering, or oral sex on your own. Sex toys, on the other hand, can be really beneficial.
5. Make Use of High-Quality Lubricant.
When there's too much of a good thing, it's usually a negative thing. There is no such thing as too much lubrication when it comes to preparing your spouse for a squirting orgasm.
You may believe that lubrication is unneeded if you've followed the guidelines above for prepping your partner for the experience. After all, shouldn't her arousal juices suffice?
Every woman is unique. Some women create a significant amount of natural lubricants, while others do not. Even if they do, lubricants can alleviate a lot of the pressure.
There are many different types of lubricants available on the market.
Silicone-based and water-based lubes are the most frequent. Flavored lubes, scented lubes, and 'all-natural' lubes are also available.
There are also lubes that give you a warm or cool sensation when you put them on.
However, the ideal lubrication is one that works for both you and your partner.
If you're going to use condoms, make sure your lubricant is compatible. Silicone-based lubricants can cause the condom to break down, whereas water-based lubricants are generally safe for both latex and non-latex condoms.
Apply a nickel-sized amount of lubrication to your fingertip for a g-spot orgasm. Slowly flick the g-spot with your fingertip inserted into her vagina.
As she grows more excited, you may always add more fingers, and you should apply additional lubrication at regular intervals to keep her comfortable. After all, nothing is more irritating than a finger catching against her vaginal walls or the straining that might occur when there is little lubricant.
6. Sex Toys Should Be Introduced
Let's have a look at a few sex devices that can help your spouse experience a mind-blowing squirting orgasm.
Vibrator
A vibrator is a simple gadget that millions of women (and men) use all over the world. So, how can it make your spouse squirt?
The vibrator's versatility makes it simple!
A vibrator can be put into the vaginal canal, used on the clitoris, or even teased on the pussy's lips.
Inserting it into the vaginal canal is the most direct route. It can immediately trigger the g-spot if inserted at just the proper angle.
The vibrations can deliver indirect sensation even if you enter at an angle that does not include direct contact with the g-spot. If used to its full potential, this will lead to a deeper, more fulfilling orgasm.
You can also use the vibrator on her clitoris while stimulating her g-spot at the same time. The outcome will be a strong but deeply internal orgasm, followed by a burst of her sweet juices.
G-Spot Stimulator
Stimulating the g-spot, as I indicated before, is one of the finest ways to encourage your spouse to squirt. After all, the fluid released during squirting comes from a structure extremely close to the g-spot — the Skene's gland.
You can (and should) use your finger and penis to stimulate her g-spot. However, it may not always be sufficient. A g-spot stimulator is your new best friend in that circumstance.
In the same way that a dildo is placed into the vaginal canal, a g-spot stimulator is inserted into the vaginal canal. The distinction is the g-spot stimulator's specific attachment, which is used to stimulate the g-spot.
You may also acquire a vibrating g-spot stimulator if you want to take it a step further. This will heighten the squirting climax that your partner is bound to experience.
7. Find the Ideal Position
It's normal to employ physical stimulation to persuade your partner to squirt, especially in the beginning. However, your partner may squirt as a result of intercourse.
How?
The important thing is to select the appropriate sex position.
Many things will influence the 'correct' position, while some positions are more 'squirt friendly' than others. Which ones are they? Let's have a look at what we've got here.
1. Missionary Position
If you're worried about your partner squirting, a missionary (or similar) position is a good place to start.
Trust and intimacy are vital for women during sex, but especially when squirting, as I indicated earlier. If a woman does not feel emotionally and mentally attached, it can be difficult for her to truly let go. Sex positions, on the other hand, might put you and her face to face, making it much easier to form a bond.
You and your missionary companion will be quite close in this position. However, there will be enough space between you and her that your hands (and hers) will be free to wander.
Allow her to explore your body while simultaneously encouraging her to explore herself. You may even tell her how much touching herself turns you on.
While missionary may not provide the most depth, it does position the penis in such a way that each thrust rubs against the g-spot. This will gradually lead to climax and, perhaps, a squirting orgasm.
2. Cowgirl
Cowgirl is a good option if your spouse still wants to be face-to-face but wants more control than a missionary position provides.
The cowgirl position, as the name implies, is when a female mounts her male partner's dick. She then rides the dick by bouncing up and down lightly or grinding on it.
The cowgirl position is ideal for achieving a squirting orgasm for two reasons.
Because of the position's face-to-face nature, it nevertheless fosters intimacy.
Because she can grind, she can target both her g-spot and clitoris at the same time.
3. Butterfly Position
Face-to-face intimacy is crucial, but it isn't always necessary for your female spouse. In that situation, I recommend that you attempt the butterfly posture.
To get into position, your spouse should lie on her back with her ass at the bed's very edge. She'll rise her legs and place them on your shoulders as you approach.
Place your hands on her bum and gently lift her up. This will situate her pussy in front of your penis.
You can now start pushing into her. You can go deep or shallow when it comes to g-spot stimulation. You'll probably locate her sweet spot somewhere in the middle of the two depths.
4. Sandwich Position
The sandwich is a variant of the butterfly pose.
Your spouse will lie flat on her back with her ass at the extreme edge of the bed, just like the butterfly. You'll approach her, but she'll bend her legs at the knees and raise them up to her body instead of laying her legs on your shoulders.
It's possible that her hips will need to be adjusted. However, you can enter her and thrust away after that.
The angle with which your penis will penetrate her vagina is a benefit of this position over the butterfly. You'll be far more likely to reach her g-spot with less effort if you're in this posture.
5. Doggy Style
This posture appears to be at odds with the rest of this section's instructions, but doggie style appears to work for a lot of ladies.
Why?
Dual stimulation is one of the most effective techniques to bring your partner to climax while also making her squirt. This entails simultaneously stimulating the g-spot and the clitoris.
Doggy style, you guessed it, is the best position for this.
The male can reach around and stimulate his partner's clit, even if the angle of the penis isn't optimal (i.e., it doesn't brush against the g-spot as forcefully as it could). He can target both regions at the same time, increasing her chances of having a squirting orgasm.
Another advantage of doggy style is that you can modify your position as needed.
If you want your thrusts to go deeper, have her on all fours with her back straight. Alternatively, have her arch or cave in her back for shallower thrusts that excite the g-spot more effectively.
FAQ about squirting
1. What's the difference between squirting and peeing?
The difference is that when you squirt, the liquid comes from your urethral sponge (or G-spot) and when you pee, the liquid comes from your bladder.
2. Is squirting pee?
No, it's not pee. The liquid that comes out is made up of filtered blood, prostate milk and urine.
3. What does squirting feel like?
For some people, it feels like they're about to pee but then a flood of pleasure comes washing over them and they can't help but let go. For others, it might feel like a really strong orgasm that lasts a little longer than usual.
Conclusion
Squirting can be an amazing and intense experience for both partners. If you want to make your partner squirt, follow these simple steps and you'll be sure to get the job done. Remember to be patient and go slow, and you'll soon have your partner squirting like never before.
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